Smart, Outspoken and Successful Women can be Intimidating but are the Real Deal

It’s a fact that men are generally wary of smart outspoken and successful women. Is it wrong though? I don’t think so. I believe it is a result of the way our ancestors set the responsibilities and roles of both men and women.

Since the beginning, thesociety has required of the man to be the provider and protector of the family,which made him the head. Yet this status has been greatly challenged today withthe wake of feminism and unfortunately, men are finding it hard to adopt.

Recent studies in the UShave revealed some interesting facts about the preferences of men in smartsuccessful women. When asked, most claim they would date a smarter and moresuccessful woman.

However, once theyinteract with intelligent women and are outsmarted, they would rather not dateone. In addition, it is quite lucid that most marriages with very successfulwomen rarely last. I guess the problem is partly, the male ego, so frail andfragile, yet so fundamental to his existence.

It is the reason why mensolve issues with stare downs and fists, the motivation behind the many masksmen wear to hide their ingrained vulnerability; stoic mask, athletic mask,comic mask, aggressive mask, to mention but a few. This ego is in constant needfor massaging and an overly successful woman is does the very opposite.

Men are more emotionalthan women, they only hide it better. A man’s quest to feel relevant and neededis the wheel that drives his hustle. So when a woman appears and shows him how‘not-needed’ he is, it bruises his ego. It’s called emasculation, one of themost dreaded phenomena in a man’s life.It rips off the very necessity the defines his existence, to be needed.

But what can we do?Squeeze these women to where we think they belong, below our status? No! Theydon’t belong there. In fact, they never belonged there. Our ancestors werewrong to confine women in acquiescent boxes. The race to equality isunstoppable and in fact, it’s to thebenefit of everyone.

So get ready to see manymore successful, intelligent and outspoken women; alphas, and in that case,marry them and nurture great families with them. However, to do this, sacrifices have to be made

I understand the desireto be in control is deeply rooted in a man’s system. But things are changingand we better adapt sooner than later. To save the family and ensure thethriving of our bloodline we have to accept that women too can take the lead incertain sectors. It doesn’t make us less of men, it actually levels down theburden on us.

If your wife earns more,she can take care of the major bills while you save some money for personalgrowth and financial future planning. If she is smarter, she can make better family decisions on integral matters.

What you need is to comeinto a consensus on your roles and maintain constant beneficial communication.If she is more successful, would it be wonderful to get free coaching from thevery best branding mentor in the comfort of your bed while you stroke her hairand kiss her soft lips?

If that’s not enough, howabout; you will rarely get bored because she has so much to share with you;more money into the family, a challenge to become better, respect from yoursocial group, adventure, good spending, healthier living, and smart kids.